I have this problem since I was 12 years old. I didn't know pornography until that day; I had an cursh on it. Then I continue doing it in a weekly basis. When I got to college, I got very nervious in exams, so I would masturbate to ';relax my self';. The worst of it was in the last semester of college when I got an Hernia becuase I was too tense in final projects. I was in a surgery to solve that problem. After 2 years from that, I continue to do masturbation at night. It seems I can't sleep if I don't do it. I want to quit doing it. What should I do?Should I get professional advice if I have to masturbate myself before sleeping at night?
Relax! I started masturbating when I was 12/13 and was similarly torn by how powerful the sex drive can be.
If you want to abstain from sex, that's fine...but just recognize that you will be working to ignore one of the two most powerful urges that humans have (the drive for sex and the drive to feed ourselves are both powerful)...so dont feel guilty if you fail at abstaining.
on the flip side, masturbation is normal and healthy, and you should have little reason to feel guilty about doing it.
from a purely biological point of view, your job on this planet is to mate and pass on your genes...so you're going to feel ';horny'; a lot between ages 13-45Should I get professional advice if I have to masturbate myself before sleeping at night?
Some people may think this is a real problem but it is only one if you think that it is I myself have been doing this for alto of years and find nothing wrong with it.
why stop it if it feels good, it is normal to masturbate, heck if it helps you relax than what's the trouble
Well, you don't seem you really want to quit it either way. Best solution is to, well, limit yourself. Give and take a number of times you do it a week. Then slowly decrease the number. Besides, it's all about self control. Nonetheless, it IS a problem if it's a MUST for you. It being a habit is bad.
Don't worry about it dude. One of the latest health magazines (maybe ';Prevention';) recommended that guys who have trouble falling asleep should masturbate because the orgasm releases neurotransmitters that will make you sleepy--which is why guys always want to go to sleep after having sex.
you should seek professional advise if masturbating is already hampering your productivity or it's causing you physical deterioration. As it is, most guys would jerk off too to get a good sleep.
Otherwise, you're okay dude....
yes you should...dont worry though...it is nothing to be ashamed about all guys go through it.....but yes get help....if any1 messes with you about it ignore them.....
xoxo
~Courtney~
Get yourself a lover.
Problem solved.
always have several spoons in your fridge. when the time comes that you feel the urge to masturbate, go grab a cold spoon in your fridge and press it against your dick.
relax freaky-- Its only a problem if ur wearin it down to a nub or u cant take care of ur ADL's (all the stuff u need to do on a daily basis). Anyway, why on earth would u want to stop- If u have fears of injury u can always wear goggles and shoot for the hopefully non-carpet based floor. Tunnel carpal is a rare but definite possibility-- There is Medical insurance for that or u can just blame ur job for the ahhhh injury. make peace with ur piece
--Mo
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