I think its best to just tell her how your feeling. You cant watch her 24/7 but make sur she always does her homework and read it before she hands it in. I wouldn't be too worried.What advice can you give a mother with a 12 year old daughter who is boy crazy? I want her to have friends,?
listen,
i am 13 and trust me everyone is boy crazy at my age i liked 10 guys at once and dont worry she wont do anything bad and just check her homework b4 she turns it in and tell her that if she gets preg u'll kick her out of the house, it worked for me
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A lot of 12-year-old girls are boy crazy, because they are just discovering their own sexuality, and experiencing their first feelings of attraction to the opposite sex.
The most important thing you can do to keep her on the right track is talk, talk, talk! Offer your opinion about important issues, and ask her what HER opinion is. Also, keep her involved in sports or other activities. The busier she is, the less time she will have for the boy/girl stuff at this point.
Honestly it just comes down to talking with your daughter. Not hounding her about sex and boys. But being apart of her life every day. Be honest and open with her and she will be with you. You need to stay her mother but it doesn't hurt to be her friend sometimes as well. It might be awkward at first but as you two talk more the more and more it will feel like the right thing to do. If she does something she doesn't feel comfortable talking to you about then its most likely something she shouldn't be doing. Just remember your her mother in the end and you need to make sure she understands as well. when a mother tells her daughter shes disappointed her is more hurtful than anything else. be it punishment or something else. That is the one thing they don't want to hear. best of luck and learn to trust in your daughter. You have taught her and raised her in your shadow. trust her to do whats right. ^_^
i think that by allowing her to do things with her friends, she will gain respect for you. if you make it clear to her that as long as what she is doing is safe, that she is ok, then she is allowed to do it. trust me when i have done something wrong i feel so guilty that i end up telling my parents. also if you have a place in your town where kids hang out, she will probably want to go there. it may seem really hard but wait until she is around 13 because some of the kids who have been going there for a long time will be tired of it but she will just be getting started. if you are worried abut her school wrok, just make sure that she does her homework and understands the subject.
Make sure you communicate with your daughter. Make sure you are not one of those clueless parents where they assume that there kids will never grow up. You seem alot like my mother was, My mom knew the day I lost my virginity and I was 17 years old. My mother and I have a very good relationship, because she trusts me and I turned out great compared to alot of teenagers that do nothing but lie to there parents and get pregnate at the age of sixteen...Good luck with all of that. :]
take this from me, i am only 14 1/2 i was 12 once. but when she gets in trouble try to be supportive but tell what she did was wrong. teenagers have to learn wrong from right either way. and if not now than later. but since your daughter is only 12 tell her she cant date until shes in high school to be safe. and please take this from a teenager dont embarrase her in front of her friends. just tell her whats right and whats wrong. give her some priviledges at a time and if she does something bad take that priviledge away for awhile.
Id love to be that age again, wouldnt have the drama of boys. Just explain to her that she shouldnt waste her time on boys at her age and if she has a crush on one dont act on it yet cause shes too young. Also explain to her that you dont want her getting involved with boys yet and to concentrate on school and her friends.
AS HORRIBLE AS IT SOUNDS, MABEY TRY BIRTH CONTROL,,, THIS DAY AND AGE I QUESS ITS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY UNLESS YOU WANT TO BE RAISING ANOTHER ONE. NOT SAYING SHE WILL BUT. PEER PRESSURE IS SOOOOO HARD THESE DAYS THAT WHAT HAPPEND TO ME.... AND I ENDED UP PREGNATE AT 16 AND PLENTY OF GIRLS WERE DOING IT AT 12 SO THEY MADE FUN OF ME, SO THAT ANSWER IS SPEAKING FROM EXPERIENCE AND I HAVE AN 11 YEAR OLD GILR NOW IM DREADING IT SO I HOPE I HELPED A LITTLE, GOOD LUCK, JUST BE THERE 4 HER #1...........
thats all you can really do just to forbid her to do anything cause she will rebel
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