I have some questions that I need help with. I was just wondering if this is a good place to turn for advice.Is it weird to get relationship advice from here?
once you sift through the joke answers and the little kids commenting, you can get some decent advice.
most people give advice based on their personal experience. Some will tell you things you don't want to hear but keep in mind, just because you don't like what they tell you doesn't necessarily make it any less true. Some are more gentle than others in telling you a hard truth.
keep your question focused on what it is you want to know. don't put up a lot of unnecessary details but do remember to put in the important details.
depending on the day of the week and the time of the day, you'll run into more immature answers on singles and dating than you will in marriage and divorce. This is why a lot of older singles or more serious minded younger singles will ask their questions there instead of here.
on Y!A, you will encounter many different people w/ different experiences who don't know you and are more likely to be honest w/ you in what they tell you. your friends meanwhile may not have the experience you need to have your answers or they may be trying to soothe your ego and not tell you something that they think might hurt your feelings. Sometimes you need tough love instead of a lot of a back patting or blunt honesty instead of white lies. You'll get that here.
but as w/ any advice: you have the final say in what you do and how you handle things in your life.Is it weird to get relationship advice from here?
I don't think it's weird...I see this place as just another place to talk to people and see what others opinions might be about a situation. Not any different then asking your friends or family for advice. Everyone has their own opinions about things, so it's good to hear what people on the outside of the situation would do....but ultimately it's up to you, nobody (either on the internet or real life) can tell you what to do or what is the right thing to do, you still have to figure it out for yourself.
Well here you can find a lot of types of people the kind that are helpful and will answer with sincerity others who just want to goof off too. All in all you need to use your best judgment to decide what answer would work best for you because all people have different personalities and deal with problems in different ways.
Advice is okay to get from almost anywhere. Just make sure it's what you really want to do and not just what someone is telling you to do. It's still your life and you need to live it the way YOU see fit.
It is a good place because people talk from experience.
yes, but please be sure that people know who you are already, so just so you know you aren't anonymous at all.
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